Badazzfest 3.0 New Years Bash

[Badazzcougar]

I will be hosting this party at my place with our newly remodeled kitchen and dining room:) We should have tons of space now to relax. I'm thinking if people wanted to start showing up around 7:00pm on New Years Eve we could begin from there with the festivities. We were thinking about making some chilli and having some small snacks. Possibly some cookies although Ryan and Rob cleaned quite a few out:eek: If people could bring some items,like chips,more cookies,or homemade desserts;)or anything else you think we can all enjoy,please bring it. Alcohol wise we have a PicknSave a few minutes away.

For entertainment we have PS2,N64,Gamecube,Genesis,and old school NES. Of course I was thinking of playing some drinking games:biggrin: I had this weird craving to play hide and seek in my house the other day with my wife. That would be rather insane with like 10 people who are typsy:evil:

For people staying over we have 2 bedrooms,1 air mattress and 3 recliners.
So bringing a sleeping bag wouldn't be a bad idea.

My address 925 N. Brookfield Rd. Brookfield WI, 53045
My cell: 2624423732
List of Attendees so far:

1)Me:wave:
2)Mrs.Badazz
3)BBox
4)Aries
5)Gmprincess
6)Hugnsmile I'm pretty sure
7)Nathan Hugnsmile's sugardaddy

Post up if I am missing you and U will be added;) I can't wait to see all my Neco homies again soon:goofy:

[Bergie_dark by design]

i'd be intrested but, if i did come i'd end up bringing like 3 - 4 friends.

[Badazzcougar]

i'd be intrested but, if i did come i'd end up bringing like 3 - 4 friends.

You should bring that clan of dudes at my last festival,they were pretty cool:)

[BigBalledOX]

****, are you kidding me? I was just trying to figure out what the crap to do for New Year's. Count me in! :biggrin:

Oh, and post up your black ass in Illinois too, we all know thats where all the action is. :)

[Badazzcougar]

****, are you kidding me? I was just trying to figure out what the crap to do for New Year's. Count me in! :biggrin:

Oh, and post up your black ass in Illinois too, we all know thats where all the action is. :)

I know,but I feel I need to stir up some action in WI since its only Bergie and I:(

[ov3n]

i have asked for dec 26-jan 2 off... so i could come.

i will bring the explorer.
4.0 SOHC
4 low
4 high
in dash changer
doors
power locks

I'm sure lightning misses me :)

[Badazzcougar]

i have asked for dec 26-jan 2 off... so i could come.

i will bring the explorer.
4.0 SOHC
4 low
4 high
in dash changer
doors
power locks

I'm sure lightning misses me :)

Muffler
AC
Tires
Alloys
:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

[Bergie_dark by design]

haha, oh man.. Does it come with rust ?

[ov3n]

the running boards are starting to rust :rofl:

[jaged]

if it were the 29/30 i could do that

[ov3n]

How does he have a new years party on December 29th and 30th.....
I think old age is screwing up your calendar reading skills.

[Badazzcougar]

How does he have a new years party on December 29th and 30th.....
I think old age is screwing up your calendar reading skills.

Jason will come if he knows whats good for him;)

[jaged]

cause the family does actual new years day. you coould just call it the start and have a 4 day drunken festivus. plus how am i going to go polar bearing in cheeseland?

[ov3n]

well, wisconsin's stretch of lake michigan is far more impressive than indiana's :)

[Badazzcougar]

well, wisconsin's stretch of lake michigan is far more impressive than indiana's :)

Totally agree:biggrin:

[skull_heaven]

i might be in

[Badazzcougar]

i might be in

Nice:evil:

[Badazzcougar]

Updated see first post.

[ov3n]

it has been determined that oven can not attend, as the soulless corporation known as fedex kinko's believes that employees should not be celebrating new years with friends etc.

[Jameson250s]

haha
ii'd feeel weird
cuzzz im way young
anddd that means i cant drink legally
damnit.

[Frosty]

i have asked for dec 26-jan 2 off... so i could come.

i will bring the explorer.
4.0 SOHC
4 low
4 high
in dash changer
doors
power locks

I'm sure lightning misses me :)

Muffler
AC
Tires
Alloys
:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: lawl

[bensenvill]

wait I'm coming? all I said was I like to rock the party.... lol

Simply put me and my friend group have been going to my buddy's cottage [right by jason's house] for the past 7 years... doesnt sound like that is happening this year, so if tradition is going to be broken, I will be attending [w/ GF]

[Echoman]

Hide & seek? What were you hiding?:naughty:

[Echoman]

Ughhhh! Well, I'm not sure what to even say here. So, Carrie and I kind of got into it tonight (which is rare). It was about New Year's Eve. I said yes to Badazz New Year's party since I hadn't heard us agreeing to anything. Well, tonight, lo and behold I hear that the last time we hung out with Erica (Carrie's friend that we spent the last few New Years with) had verbally told Carrie about doing something for her birthday AND New Years which Carrie agreed to (even though there were no plans at the time). Today she gets an evite to a New Year's Eve party from Erica. So, now she thinks that we should go to that since she "agreed" to these elicit plans months ago and doesn't want to go back on her word.

Now I feel like she's making ME go back on my word so she doesn't have to go back on hers, even though I still think it's BS that she feels like she agreed to anything that wasn't an actual plan or party or anything definite. I'm not sure what to do here. I don't want to argue about this anymore, I don't want to go back on saying yes to you guys, I guess I kind of see her point of view, and she tells me that she sees how I'd feel bad too. I'm not really sure I know how to go about this. I don't know how she "agreed" to these plans since I wasn't part of the conversation and I guess I can see how she doesn't want to say no to Erica since they've been friends since HS.

If anybody can give me some advice or a different perspective since I'm a bit mad and might not be thinking totally objectively I'd really appreciate it. I'm sure I'll get crap for this one way or another, but any real advice would nice. I don't feel like I can win either way in this situation now. :confused::mad::rolleyes::disgust:

[ov3n]

She should go do her thing, you should go to Badazzfest.

[BigBalledOX]

Ughhhh! Well, I'm not sure what to even say here. So, Carrie and I kind of got into it tonight (which is rare). It was about New Year's Eve. I said yes to Badazz New Year's party since I hadn't heard us agreeing to anything. Well, tonight, lo and behold I hear that the last time we hung out with Erica (Carrie's friend that we spent the last few New Years with) had verbally told Carrie about doing something for her birthday AND New Years which Carrie agreed to (even though there were no plans at the time). Today she gets an evite to a New Year's Eve party from Erica. So, now she thinks that we should go to that since she "agreed" to these elicit plans months ago and doesn't want to go back on her word.

Now I feel like she's making ME go back on my word so she doesn't have to go back on hers, even though I still think it's BS that she feels like she agreed to anything that wasn't an actual plan or party or anything definite. I'm not sure what to do here. I don't want to argue about this anymore, I don't want to go back on saying yes to you guys, I guess I kind of see her point of view, and she tells me that she sees how I'd feel bad too. I'm not really sure I know how to go about this. I don't know how she "agreed" to these plans since I wasn't part of the conversation and I guess I can see how she doesn't want to say no to Erica since they've been friends since HS.

If anybody can give me some advice or a different perspective since I'm a bit mad and might not be thinking totally objectively I'd really appreciate it. I'm sure I'll get crap for this one way or another, but any real advice would nice. I don't feel like I can win either way in this situation now. :confused::mad::rolleyes::disgust:

I will attempt to be nonpartisan in this one, but I make no promises.

First of all, I'm calling shenanigans on both of you. Dave posted his black ass up on 11/22 about this. I don't know when you saw the post for the first time Rob, but it has definitely been a couple weeks. So you have that going for you.

On the other hand, you didn't say the date that Carrie first agreed to these plans with her friend. So its possible she's had this planned out for a little longer than you had your plans.

That being said, shame on both of you for making plans for New Year's Eve without consulting each other. Its definitely a relatively major holiday, so it was quite foolish of the both of you to simply assume the other was going to just go along with your plans. It also sounds like you guys waited to tell each other until just recently (I would assume last night) which was ALSO foolish.

I don't know how much real advice I have for you. As ov3n suggested, you could do separate things on New Year's Eve, but I know that if I was in a relationship with someone, I would want to spend New Year's Eve with them if it were possible. So I don't really think thats a viable option.

Of course I want you to be at Dave and Tiffany's for New Year's Eve. Its already disappointing that our favorite kitchen appliance won't be there, so for you to not be there would be teh suck. But I dunno man . . . as the saying goes, women have all the power because women have all the vaginas.

I hope you guys can work out some sort of compromise on this. Its pretty much a lose-lose-lose situation. But, it seems like you tend to do a lot of things for her and her friends. It'd be nice if she would make a sacrifice for you. :shrug:

And if her friends are hot they can totally come with. :naughty: :cover:

[Badazzcougar]

Ughhhh! Well, I'm not sure what to even say here. So, Carrie and I kind of got into it tonight (which is rare). It was about New Year's Eve. I said yes to Badazz New Year's party since I hadn't heard us agreeing to anything. Well, tonight, lo and behold I hear that the last time we hung out with Erica (Carrie's friend that we spent the last few New Years with) had verbally told Carrie about doing something for her birthday AND New Years which Carrie agreed to (even though there were no plans at the time). Today she gets an evite to a New Year's Eve party from Erica. So, now she thinks that we should go to that since she "agreed" to these elicit plans months ago and doesn't want to go back on her word.

Now I feel like she's making ME go back on my word so she doesn't have to go back on hers, even though I still think it's BS that she feels like she agreed to anything that wasn't an actual plan or party or anything definite. I'm not sure what to do here. I don't want to argue about this anymore, I don't want to go back on saying yes to you guys, I guess I kind of see her point of view, and she tells me that she sees how I'd feel bad too. I'm not really sure I know how to go about this. I don't know how she "agreed" to these plans since I wasn't part of the conversation and I guess I can see how she doesn't want to say no to Erica since they've been friends since HS.

If anybody can give me some advice or a different perspective since I'm a bit mad and might not be thinking totally objectively I'd really appreciate it. I'm sure I'll get crap for this one way or another, but any real advice would nice. I don't feel like I can win either way in this situation now. :confused::mad::rolleyes::disgust:

I think I would have to agree with Ryan,I think she can sacrifice hanging out with all of us horrible NECO people for an evening,I know she had a awful time with us last time:rofl: If anything could'nt you both hang out with her friends on New Years day:confused:

[mrsbadazzcougar]

Ughhhh! Well, I'm not sure what to even say here. So, Carrie and I kind of got into it tonight (which is rare). It was about New Year's Eve. I said yes to Badazz New Year's party since I hadn't heard us agreeing to anything. Well, tonight, lo and behold I hear that the last time we hung out with Erica (Carrie's friend that we spent the last few New Years with) had verbally told Carrie about doing something for her birthday AND New Years which Carrie agreed to (even though there were no plans at the time). Today she gets an evite to a New Year's Eve party from Erica. So, now she thinks that we should go to that since she "agreed" to these elicit plans months ago and doesn't want to go back on her word.

Now I feel like she's making ME go back on my word so she doesn't have to go back on hers, even though I still think it's BS that she feels like she agreed to anything that wasn't an actual plan or party or anything definite. I'm not sure what to do here. I don't want to argue about this anymore, I don't want to go back on saying yes to you guys, I guess I kind of see her point of view, and she tells me that she sees how I'd feel bad too. I'm not really sure I know how to go about this. I don't know how she "agreed" to these plans since I wasn't part of the conversation and I guess I can see how she doesn't want to say no to Erica since they've been friends since HS.

If anybody can give me some advice or a different perspective since I'm a bit mad and might not be thinking totally objectively I'd really appreciate it. I'm sure I'll get crap for this one way or another, but any real advice would nice. I don't feel like I can win either way in this situation now. :confused::mad::rolleyes::disgust:

I'm trying to put myself in Carrie's situation...hanging out with a close HS friend or your husband's buddies...hmmm. If I was her, HS friend...because she doesn't know you guys that well yet. ;)

When did you guys start discussing New Year's plans together? Did you talk about Badazzfest with her before saying you would come or did you just jump on the bandwagon...which I know David has done:disgust:? If you did, did she say anything about other possible plans then? Is Erica's party a big group get-together or a few friends? Like David said...yes I'm agreeing with David:rolleyes:...maybe you can see them New Year's Day since they're closer. IDK.

We'd love to see you guys here, but I don't want anybody upset either. Either way, you would be right that you can't win either way. Neither of you can.:( If you decide to come here, then Carrie won't be completely happy. If you go to Erica's then you won't be completely happy. You have to come to some kind of compromise. Ah the wonders of marriage...:rofl:

[Echoman]

Hey, Okay I took some time to get a more level headed perspective on everything. BTW you're input really helped. Well, let me clear up any confusion on the time line. Carrie talked to her friend a couple months ago about her b-day and New Years I guess. At that time she said that we would be excited to hang out with them for both(even though there weren't any definite plans). I usually leave New Years up to Carrie so I don't blame her for agreeing to something. She didn't mention anything to me since there were no actual plans which is why I agreed to our plans. I guess (like Mrs.Badazz mentioned) I did agree without discussing...:rolleyes:. It's not like Dave said that Carrie wouldn't have fun with us or that I wouldn't have fun with her friends, it's just a matter of who has to back out now and why.

I appreciate the advice since I was a little fired up about everything. Oh and I don't sacrifice my plans anymore than she does. The summer seemed that way though, but that was for family plans which are kind of hard to NOT have to go to. I guess technically Carrie agreed to make plans before I did, but then again there were no plans until recently. That's where I'm stuck. Carrie was excited about our plans until her friend invited us downtown. The other thing now I guess is that if they don't get enough people for the quota the bar will open up to the public. That kind of tightens the screws on me now too. I'll keep you posted with what we agree on. Thanks for the advice though guys.

[Badazzcougar]

Hey, Okay I took some time to get a more level headed perspective on everything. BTW you're input really helped. Well, let me clear up any confusion on the time line. Carrie talked to her friend a couple months ago about her b-day and New Years I guess. At that time she said that we would be excited to hang out with them for both(even though there weren't any definite plans). I usually leave New Years up to Carrie so I don't blame her for agreeing to something. She didn't mention anything to me since there were no actual plans which is why I agreed to our plans. I guess (like Mrs.Badazz mentioned) I did agree without discussing...:rolleyes:. It's not like Dave said that Carrie wouldn't have fun with us or that I wouldn't have fun with her friends, it's just a matter of who has to back out now and why.

I appreciate the advice since I was a little fired up about everything. Oh and I don't sacrifice my plans anymore than she does. The summer seemed that way though, but that was for family plans which are kind of hard to NOT have to go to. I guess technically Carrie agreed to make plans before I did, but then again there were no plans until recently. That's where I'm stuck. Carrie was excited about our plans until her friend invited us downtown. The other thing now I guess is that if they don't get enough people for the quota the bar will open up to the public. That kind of tightens the screws on me now too. I'll keep you posted with what we agree on. Thanks for the advice though guys.

Ok I could understand that then. Well we will see you guyz next year:tongue:

[BigBalledOX]

Ok I could understand that then. Well we will see you guyz next year:tongue:

HEY! He didn't say he was out fa sheezy! :disgust:

[Badazzcougar]

HEY! He didn't say he was out fa sheezy! :disgust:

And I was just messing around;)

[Bergie_dark by design]

Im not sure yet if im gonna be able to make it down there... Do to the Weird problem my cars been having lately. :cover:

[Echoman]

Hey guys, Thanks for all the help. I was planning Carrie's birthday this weekend and the original plans didn't work out cuz the place was booked. Anyway, Carrie said she really didn't care all that much about this years birthday and didn't feel like trying for another set of plans. This made me realize that I think all the stress with switching jobs, the holidays, she's had some family issues lately...I think they've all just got her run down and beat. I noticed that she'd been a little edgy and not herself lately and I think she just needs a break.
I know I'll get crap for this, but based on that I don't want to add the stress of having to tell her friends that she's not going to New Years since I almost think that she'd just not want to do anything all together if it came down to that. I don't want to potentially be the proverbial straw that breaks the stress camel's back. I also don't want to test Carrie's friendship with her girls at this point either. Sorry I won't be joining you guys, but I'll have to plan something after the holidays at our place...once things kind of normalize. Thanks again for inviting us and helping me think through this. Anyway, back to Vista migration.

[BigBalledOX]

Hey guys, Thanks for all the help. I was planning Carrie's birthday this weekend and the original plans didn't work out cuz the place was booked. Anyway, Carrie said she really didn't care all that much about this years birthday and didn't feel like trying for another set of plans. This made me realize that I think all the stress with switching jobs, the holidays, she's had some family issues lately...I think they've all just got her run down and beat. I noticed that she'd been a little edgy and not herself lately and I think she just needs a break.
I know I'll get crap for this, but based on that I don't want to add the stress of having to tell her friends that she's not going to New Years since I almost think that she'd just not want to do anything all together if it came down to that. I don't want to potentially be the proverbial straw that breaks the stress camel's back. I also don't want to test Carrie's friendship with her girls at this point either. Sorry I won't be joining you guys, but I'll have to plan something after the holidays at our place...once things kind of normalize. Thanks again for inviting us and helping me think through this. Anyway, back to Vista migration.

Pussy! :disgust:






















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[Bergie_dark by design]

Haha....

[bensenvill]

wait I'm coming? all I said was I like to rock the party.... lol

Simply put me and my friend group have been going to my buddy's cottage [right by jason's house] for the past 7 years... doesnt sound like that is happening this year, so if tradition is going to be broken, I will be attending [w/ GF]

just an update, my friends traditional party is back on, so unfortunately I wont be joining you guys this year... and to be honest my health the past couple weeks has been downright scary and I'm probably just going to end up spending it at home.

[BigBalledOX]

This still going on?

[Badazzcougar]

This still going on?
If everybody on the list yet is still coming then yes;)

[BigBalledOX]

If everybody on the list yet is still coming then yes;)

Well . . . Rob and Carrie's out . . . and ov3n . . . and Terry . . . so how now brown cow? :tongue:

[GM Princess]

We'll be there! (weather permitting of course!) :tongue:

[Crispy]

Unfortunately Wayne is on call for the night so we cant go anywhere --- I'll make one of your events sometime, I swear!

[Badazzcougar]

I added my address and phone# for those that will be joining us tomorrow. See you soon:)