View Full Version : I Need Help (its about a girl)
JacobS
09-04-2006, 01:21 AM
ok, so i get invited to this girls party and ive liked her since freshman year, for those of you who dont know im now a junior. its a birthday party and i think, well no big deal noone else is going to be bringing presents so why should i? then i thought about it and i decided i should at least get her something. So my mom followed me to Target and we bought some flowers. then when i get to the party i have no balls and dont give them to her...whenever im around her i just get all nervous.
what should i do??
somethings different about her, but ive never been able to put my finger on it. shes so beautiful, it hurts to think about her. i think i might...ya no...love her
any help is appreciated:(
whitecougar
09-04-2006, 01:24 AM
man same stuff here theres nothing really to do other then try to keep it togother
Ass to Mouth, all shyness out the door! :thumbsup:
Lunar Limelight
09-04-2006, 08:13 AM
Awww cute. Try hanging out with her, like go to a fair or something. So it's just you and her so you two can talk without a bunch of crazy party people. No girl can turn down flowers, or stuffed animals...or car parts. Okay that might just be me. But every girl loves flowers! Ask Karin she'll agree.
BigBalledOX
09-04-2006, 09:35 AM
****, I can't believe I missed this! I gotta run to work, but I'll be back and we'll chat some more Little J. Don't worry, we'll getcha covered. ;)
LadyX
09-04-2006, 03:49 PM
You should've given her the flowers!! She would've loved that. Especially if nobody else brought anything. You should bring them to her now.. (or new ones) and explain how you wanted to before, but were chicken... :) then ask her to go for a coffe or ice cream or something!
BigBalledOX
09-04-2006, 05:50 PM
We need more information. Jacob, is she dating anyone or whatever? Have you ever taken her out on a date? If so, how did it go?
Over the long run, I think you did better not giving her the flowers. Flowers are a great gift to give a girl . . . if you're already seeing her.
JacobS
09-04-2006, 05:56 PM
she not seeing anyone, and ive never been on a date with her
im just not that great when it comes to girls...
BigBalledOX
09-04-2006, 06:43 PM
she not seeing anyone, and ive never been on a date with her
im just not that great when it comes to girls...
Bull**** kid. You can be as good or bad with women as you wanna be.
You strike me as a sweet kid, and that's good. But you gotta find a little inner asshole.
Here's the thing . . . you're too worried about trying to impress this girl. You're so worried about ****ing up, saying the wrong thing, or not being up to "her standards" that you become paralyzed.
This girl probably has guys fawning all over her. You said she's not seeing anyone, so guess what? All the guys, fawning all over her, their **** ain't workin. So you gotta be the guy who's different.
First and foremost, you gotta talk to her. I don't care what it takes, you gotta figure out a way to make yourself believe this - there's no one in the world she wants more than you. She may not know that just yet, but when you start believing it, before too long she'll be believing it too.
Once you really believe that, once you've got a little bit of attitude, thats when you strike. Because once you believe she wouldn't want anyone but you, you've got complete control of the situation.
Be flirty. Tease. Joke with. Be a touch naughty, but always make sure its with a wink and a smile (not necessarily literally). Be a little cocky. Girls love cocky. Don't be arrogant, mind you. You don't wanna come off as a total prick. But you wanna come off as someone who is supremely confident in himself.
However, the best piece of advice I can give you is this . . . be cool. You obviously like this girl a LOT. And thats great. But she can't know just how much you like her, right off the bat. Thats the single worst thing you can do. I know its dumb, but trust me on this one.
Do you still have those flowers for her? This is what I would do . . . find a place where you KNOW she will find them. Leave them on her front doorstep, something like that. Don't give them to a friend to give to her, because that's ****in weak sauce. But somehow, find a way to get them to her. With the flowers, send a note that reads something like "Had a great time at your birthday party. We should hang out some time, just you and me. Call me and we'll set it up. Later! - Jacob" and give her your phone number if she doesn't already have it. If she does, skip the number.
Then . . . and here's the hard part . . . wait.
She WILL call you. It won't be nearly soon enough, but it WILL happen. The key in all this is how you word certain things. You tell her you had fun last time you were around her. Then, you don't ask if she wants to hang out, you TELL her she wants to hang out with you. Next, you don't ASK her to call, you TELL her to call. You never for a second let on that you're dying for a chance to kick it with her.
If you see her and she hasn't called you yet, don't sweat, don't ask if she got the flowers, don't get nervous. At all times, BE COOL. Act like you don't care if she calls you or not. Like I said before, don't let on how much you dig on her.
Go, put these lessons to practice, and report back with the results.
Oh, and one last thing man . . . just in case things don't go the way you want . . . there's MILLIONS of beautiful women out there, but not all of them are worth your time . . . most of them just cheat on you. ;)
MercCoug99
09-04-2006, 06:51 PM
sh*t ryan. thats some good advise. i think im gonna bare this info in mind if my current girlfriend doesnt work out. haha!!!
Drewmanfu0
09-04-2006, 09:33 PM
Yeah whay Ryan said.
I still think ass to mouth... TRUST ME!
whiteboy477
09-04-2006, 11:18 PM
listen to the man Girls do like pricks. Me and my best friend were hanging out with his grilfriend and 2 other girls that we had just met. I was nice to the girl I thought was cute and he was kind of a prick to her. Girl ends up getting a crush on him.
Frosty
09-04-2006, 11:43 PM
Whoa whoa whoa, am I missing something here? A lot of this is quite possibly THE worst advice I've ever heard :rolleyes:
Have any of you guys heard of "being yourself?" Why would you want to act like someone you're not? If a girl likes a guy who is a prick to her, SHE has some sick insecure problem in which she likes being abused.
Be yourself, and if the girl doesn't like you for who you are, then it wasn't meant to be. That's my philosophy, hate it or love it.
BigBalledOX
09-04-2006, 11:52 PM
Whoa whoa whoa, am I missing something here? A lot of this is quite possibly THE worst advice I've ever heard :rolleyes:
Have any of you guys heard of "being yourself?" Why would you want to act like someone you're not? If a girl likes a guy who is a prick to her, SHE has some sick insecure problem in which she likes being abused.
Be yourself, and if the girl doesn't like you for who you are, then it wasn't meant to be. That's my philosophy, hate it or love it.
Ok, first of all, I didn't say he should be a prick. I said he should be a little cocky.
Second of all, here's the thing, and EVERY guy makes this mistake . . . when you're around a girl you like, most guys stop being "themself" and start trying to be someone else. Its easy to become tentative, to be too worried about what you say or do, for fear of the girl not liking you.
Well guess what? Thats ****in dumb. Ultimately, you are who you are, and putting on an act to impress a girl is stupid, because even if she falls for the act, you won't be able to keep it together forever, and when it falls apart, thigns are gonna get ugly.
cougar4life
09-04-2006, 11:52 PM
Whoa whoa whoa, am I missing something here? A lot of this is quite possibly THE worst advice I've ever heard :rolleyes:
Have any of you guys heard of "being yourself?" Why would you want to act like someone you're not? If a girl likes a guy who is a prick to her, SHE has some sick insecure problem in which she likes being abused.
Be yourself, and if the girl doesn't like you for who you are, then it wasn't meant to be. That's my philosophy, hate it or love it.
Now that is some good advice.
BigBalledOX
09-04-2006, 11:59 PM
Now that is some good advice.
What is this, an after school special? I hate to break it to you kids, but real life doesn't work like that. Good doesn't always defeat evil, love doesn't conquer all and the nice guy doesn't always get the girl.
Life isn't a fairy tale. It'd be great if it was, but since its not, you have two choices, pout and cry like a little ***** with a skinned knee, or grow a ****in pair and go do something about it.
cougar4life
09-05-2006, 12:06 AM
Nothing about being nice. It is about being yourself. That means nice guys should be nice and pricks should be pricks. Just be yourself no matter what type of person you are.
pricks don't always get the girl either.
Frosty
09-05-2006, 12:09 AM
Ah crap, sorry Ryan. I should've been clear on who I was referring to, I just didn't want to point fingers. I agreed with what you said, honestly.
streetfamemlf
09-05-2006, 12:13 AM
Well did she invite you to this party herself or did you go with friends that were going? How many people were there? Was it a good share of girls and guys, or one more than the other? You don't have to be a dick or cocky at all, be the nice guy with good ideas. Also at the same time don't let her walk on you because that can happen real quick if your not on your toes. What BigBalledOX said about the flowers is a good creative way to let her know that your feelin her. You always can't be to nice becuase you don't want to be the best friend you wanna be the boyfriend. You have to be ahead of the game but act like your not, if you can figure that out. But you do have to at some point soon let her know that u wanna be more than friends. If you wait to long and then try she might give you the line that she doesnt want to mess up a good friendship or you're better off as friends. So I vote you do the flower thing and it might be a good idea to leave them on her front steps so maybe her moms sees them too because her mom garuntee will be on her *ss about calling you back becuase you were so sweet.
cougar4life
09-05-2006, 12:14 AM
Cocky isn't the best choice of words. Cocky is being over confident. Being confident is fine and recommended. Just don't act like your better than everyone else.
BigBalledOX
09-05-2006, 12:19 AM
No hard feelings or nothing Frosty. I just (correctly) figured the older crowd who's posting in here would know a thing or two about having to play games and ****.
Just because I said it has to be done, doesn't mean I particularly like it.
Ass to Mouth
lol I was just thinkin theres some good advice in this thread but it would hilarious if he comes back and says "Well guys you all had great advice but I ended up just going ass to mouth and well, she likes me now, Thanks Sham :thumbsup:"
JacobS
09-05-2006, 01:24 PM
Well did she invite you to this party herself or did you go with friends that were going? How many people were there? Was it a good share of girls and guys, or one more than the other? You don't have to be a dick or cocky at all, be the nice guy with good ideas. Also at the same time don't let her walk on you because that can happen real quick if your not on your toes. What BigBalledOX said about the flowers is a good creative way to let her know that your feelin her. You always can't be to nice becuase you don't want to be the best friend you wanna be the boyfriend. You have to be ahead of the game but act like your not, if you can figure that out. But you do have to at some point soon let her know that u wanna be more than friends. If you wait to long and then try she might give you the line that she doesnt want to mess up a good friendship or you're better off as friends. So I vote you do the flower thing and it might be a good idea to leave them on her front steps so maybe her moms sees them too because her mom garuntee will be on her *ss about calling you back becuase you were so sweet.
well she did not invite me herself, her friend planned the party for her so her friend invited me. more then half the people there were girls. Ive always tried to just be myself, but i havent had a girl friend since freshman homecoming. so im a little rusty on this stuff...
JacobS
09-05-2006, 01:25 PM
and im NOT going ass to mouth...
BigBalledOX
09-05-2006, 01:29 PM
and im NOT going ass to mouth...
Yet. ;)
Its not your ass to her mouth mind you...I hope i dont have to describe the beauty in this...
JacobS
09-05-2006, 02:28 PM
well, the flowers are on the doorstep as i type this post...
i had to get new ones because the ones i got first are starting to die
bubby
09-05-2006, 02:38 PM
Good luck man.
Let us know how it works out.
ND4SPD
09-05-2006, 02:48 PM
So Ryan... when are you going to start BBOxepedia.com? :biggrin:
bubby
09-05-2006, 02:49 PM
So Ryan... when are you going to start BBOxepedia.com? :biggrin:
:rofl:
How bout it. You'd think a guy with all the answers would have website.
NascarSigEp
09-05-2006, 03:11 PM
Hahaa, I'm the wrong person to ask right now. I just broke up with my last girlfriend because when she drinks she gets a little too "crazy". Since then I've been on a little bit of a dry spell, but I defineatly agree to be just be yourself.
Casey388
09-05-2006, 06:14 PM
I never thought I'd say this but Ryan almost hit the nail on the head with his advice. There is a fine line of cocky and confident. You almost have to flirt with that line without going over it. I had no confidence before and girls can tell that, but when you get confidence they will like you. Ry that was put about perfectly of how you should do it.
o man im nervous for you man
Saleen Cougar
09-05-2006, 07:10 PM
hope it all goes well. good luck man
Comando489
09-05-2006, 07:40 PM
dude ass to mouth is the way to go.
???????????????????????????
wtf is that about? haha
but yeah good luck. i hope u get the girl.
cougar4life
09-05-2006, 07:41 PM
Atm Ftw
Comando489
09-05-2006, 07:42 PM
Atm Ftw
can some 1 tell me what this means,
(what is FTW)
BigBalledOX
09-05-2006, 07:46 PM
I never thought I'd say this but Ryan almost hit the nail on the head with his advice. There is a fine line of cocky and confident. You almost have to flirt with that line without going over it. I had no confidence before and girls can tell that, but when you get confidence they will like you. Ry that was put about perfectly of how you should do it.
WTF hater? You think I don't know how to run game?! :mad:
cougar4life
09-05-2006, 07:47 PM
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=FTW
JacobS
09-05-2006, 10:50 PM
well everybody ive got news...
aww Jacob thank you so much for the flowers and the dog!! I love them!
:)
thank you all for your help....now i gotta play it cool
cougar4life
09-05-2006, 10:52 PM
Woot Go Jacob :thumbsup: :banana:
bubby
09-05-2006, 10:55 PM
Wait, you bought her a dog?!
Did you go Ass to Mouth!?!?!
A DOG!?!?!?! a real one or a stuffed animal, o noooooo if its a real dog your screwed
DROPdatSCORT
09-05-2006, 11:01 PM
dear loar what have guys gone to theses days?
a dog dude? those are like 200-700 $ alone
*smacks head with palm*
So we need details here man full story of what went on...
JacobS
09-05-2006, 11:22 PM
ok this is how it went
i got out of school at 11:55 today. So i went and got some money and some new flowers. Then when no one was looking i put the flowers and the STUFFED dog on her front porch...then i went to a swimming meet...when i came home she said she loved them!!! thats about all that happened
OOOO stuffed ok good job man, make sure you talk to her though dont ignore her, talk to her like you would anyone else. dont try hard be confident you can do this. what did you put on the card did you say you two should go out sometime if so what did she say, I WILL NOT SLEEP TILL YOU GO ASS TO MOUTH!
JacobS
09-05-2006, 11:28 PM
i basically put what Ry said...only in a more sweet way, and she hasnt told me if she wants to ahng out yet....
cougar4life
09-05-2006, 11:29 PM
http://www.funkypancake.com/blog/stuff2/DSC01891.jpg
Stuffed dog :disgust: thats sick.
Cheesebox
09-05-2006, 11:29 PM
Ass to mouth is a perfectly acceptable practice of courtship.
duratecpower
09-05-2006, 11:32 PM
Never met a girl who didn't love flowers. Chocolate makes a hit too!
sweeter...what happened to ALMOST cocky, you gotta quickley show her that in some way it doesnt matter... or else it could be over before it started
BigBalledOX
09-05-2006, 11:49 PM
Trust me on this one Little J, if you're too nice, you get relagated to the "Safe (and possibly gay) Male Friend" whom she'll always wanna talk to but never wanna ****.
JacobS
09-05-2006, 11:52 PM
its not like that...i believe in abstinence until marriage...i dont want to have sex at such a young age...and i was sweet...but not to sweet...still confident...
BigBalledOX
09-05-2006, 11:56 PM
its not like that...i believe in abstinence until marriage...i dont want to have sex at such a young age...and i was sweet...but not to sweet...still confident...
What I was really meaning to say is, she won't wanna date you. You'll end up being the shmuck who she comes to whenever guys treat her like ****, the shoulder to cry on, etc. It ain't fun.
duratecpower
09-06-2006, 12:01 AM
Good point Ryan, been there.
doesnt matter sex or no sex, She wont be interested and you'll just be beating you head against the wall. Next time you talk say something like this.
You-Hey so whats up with hanging out sometime
This slag-Uhh Im not sure if i have time
You-It's not an all day thing, why dont we just (insert easy thing to hang out together that wont take more than an hour or 2)
This Slag-Ummmmmmm Alright
remember These key things
-when you mention hanging out dont make it a quetion its a statement ex:We should go out this weekend
-Dont sweeten anything up to impress her
-ONE compliment on something only girls like like cloths belts shoes accesories or that type of random bull****. A compliment you would give to any one of your friends.
AT ALL COSTS dont say something like
-Your SO BEAUTIFUL (youll freak her out)
-dont mention any type of future plans with her
-make sure its just the two of you going out
-smell good and play it cool and confident dont be too worried about what she'll say, ASSUME shes going to say **** YEAH!
Good luck buddy, change anything accordinly but follow the rules accordingly
MercCoug99
09-06-2006, 12:04 AM
cologne on the shoulders is great for hugs.
BigBalledOX
09-06-2006, 12:06 AM
So is being 6'4 and strong like ox! Girls love to be literally picked up. ;)
duratecpower
09-06-2006, 12:12 AM
Or make um hang on to you.
Frosty
09-06-2006, 12:13 AM
cologne on the shoulders is great for hugs.
I can agree with that one :thumbsup:
cougar4life
09-06-2006, 12:14 AM
who's the old guy? :tongue:
duratecpower
09-06-2006, 12:17 AM
The older the buck, the stiffer the horn.
The older the buck, the stiffer the horn.
...With the right medication :cover:
cougar22
09-06-2006, 12:59 AM
have you considerd urself gay? na just playing and no offense to anybody. But maybe you were shy to give the flowers to the girl since so many people were there, take it from me call her and talk to her for long hours at night girls like that and when you are comftourble<sp?> with her just ask her if she wants to chill anywhere and go out with her to the movies and have fun, and smooth with the dog and flowers, but other than that be yourself and talk to her before you get sharked. and before anyone asks what sharked is, its when your talking to a girl and some other guy comes and takes her away.......or you can join a fraternity that always works i did it and i got many girls :)
once again he cant use roofies frat boy haha kidding
Casey388
09-06-2006, 09:21 AM
WTF hater? You think I don't know how to run game?! :mad:
Lol i didn't mean it this way. I was saying I was surprised I agree with you.
BigBalledOX
09-06-2006, 10:03 AM
Lol i didn't mean it this way. I was saying I was surprised I agree with you.
Hater. :disgust:
:rofl:
ND4SPD
09-06-2006, 10:42 AM
I can't believe you guys thought he got her a REAL dog! :rofl:
go Jacob! - and yes... smelling good is a definite key - but not something over powering.
Sham also had some good advice about the compliments... don't give too many - a rule I try to follow is always think "what if someone said this to me... how would I feel" - now, sometimes that doesn't always work... since if a girl said to me "omg u hawt, lets bangz!" i'd be cool with that... but things like 'you purrdy, can touch your hair?" are to be avoided at all costs. ;) heh!
Comando489
09-06-2006, 06:31 PM
yeah and then when u do get with her show her this thread (after she knows that u aint a freak about her) and she may find this cute on ur part?
actually dont show her this thread haha
JacobS
09-06-2006, 06:58 PM
ok, now that i just did the most romantic thing in my life (i know, i cant believe it either), what the hell do i say??
streetfamemlf
09-06-2006, 08:27 PM
well do you talk to using aim. Do u have myspace? Or do you talk to her at school. Basically when did you usually talk to her. So whenever you do talk to her ask her to go see a movie or dinner... Maybe like olive garden or like chili's..... Right now there is a good movie out to take a girl to called step up. The only thing with that is its hard to talk to her and get somewhere when it would be the first time going out with her.So dinner i think would be the best bet. Also even something like going to the mall together would be a good time to talk and flirt with her, and get her to figure out that ur feeling her. But you do have to bring up, "So how about going out going out sometime" or however you feel comfortable saying it. And don't let her say no, if she gives you a lame excuess just find away around it once but if she keeps doing it back off and wait for another oppertunity...
Dinner i think its too soon hes 16 thats a good first date for older people but this girl could get freaked out by dinner. TALK TO HER quick and get her to chill like any friends would her house your house, if you can chill with er at her house and her mom knows what you did iwith th flowers you IN LIKE FLINT im tellin you use the mom as a stepping stone. she loves you she tells her daughter to want you. end of discussion.
I cant begin to tell you how much ass ive gotten from getting in with the mom, so easy its esier than tellin *****es your goin to iraq
NascarSigEp
09-07-2006, 07:20 PM
Or make um hang on to you.
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b232/NascarSigEp/102008438917_3300.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b232/NascarSigEp/car144.jpg
http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b232/NascarSigEp/truck1.jpg
It's not always about having nice stuff. There are some women who like you for who you are. That's when I would bust out the '89 multi colored Honda Accord or the '85 T-bird o rust.
duratecpower
09-07-2006, 10:37 PM
No, No Tim, I did not mean anything about material things. I meant so they wouldn't fall off.
Jacob, a movie is a good idea. Or a gathering of a few friends together may make you both feel comfortable, and still be able to talk. Good luck!
Frosty
09-07-2006, 10:53 PM
OMG, that truck is screaming "haul some Nebraska corn in me".
:rofl:
cougar4life
09-07-2006, 11:11 PM
OMG, that truck is screaming "haul some Nebraska corn in me".
:rofl:
That truck could make a badass street rod......:evil:
Frosty
09-07-2006, 11:22 PM
I have the song from "Deliverance" in my head right now...
:tongue:
cougar4life
09-07-2006, 11:24 PM
I think Tim should make it look similar to this. click
(http://www.truckinweb.com/brandpages/ford/0605tr_1948_ford_f100/photo_01.html)
On Topic Guys This Kid Needs This I Can Tell
NascarSigEp
09-08-2006, 09:13 AM
No, No Tim, I did not mean anything about material things. I meant so they wouldn't fall off.
Jacob, a movie is a good idea. Or a gathering of a few friends together may make you both feel comfortable, and still be able to talk. Good luck!
I got ya dude.:)
NascarSigEp
09-08-2006, 09:13 AM
That truck could make a badass street rod......:evil:
That's what I'm working on. :evil:
2002XR
09-08-2006, 09:19 AM
Thing about bringing her to a movie is you dont really get a chance to talk to each other...You go pick her up...say a few things on the way to the movies...Watch a movie...bring her home..done...But like someone said...go somewhere social with friends or not...Maybe its just me, but I find the pool hall a good place to go...a non-sketchy one..Its not quite so theres no akward silence which makes it easier to start a conversation. And so what if your both bad at it, its something to laugh at...Then when your done grab something to eat real quick and bring her home...or you could try bowling.
streetfamemlf
09-10-2006, 05:58 PM
so any updates?
JacobS
09-11-2006, 08:14 PM
no update yet....
coogalove
09-12-2006, 01:09 AM
okay, i'm back on the forums now. the internet was being ghey. so anyway, little j, the way ron started trying with me was that he put anonymus flowers in my mailbox at work. i figured out who it was and then i ran up to him and gave hima big kiss. we then started exchanging phone calls and it all lead up to what we have today! He basically swept me off my feet by pampering me and treating me like a princess. the flowers are always a great choice, and i like the idea of a dinner out. just take her out to a nice resturaunt like applebee's or something. okay. i've had my input. lol.
this chicks 16 could go either way theyre still shallow at that age... **** theyre shallow at my age too!
JacobS
09-12-2006, 11:39 PM
well, she got a homecoming date...and now theyre dating...
BigBalledOX
09-12-2006, 11:46 PM
well, she got a homecoming date...and now theyre dating...
That don't mean jack dude. :)
MercCoug99
09-12-2006, 11:49 PM
homecoming dates and dating just doesnt work out too well. keep your head high. itll work out sooner or later
whitecougar
09-12-2006, 11:55 PM
homecoming dates and dating just doesnt work out too well. keep your head high. itll work out sooner or later
i agree with that:)
What do i have to live for now
Alright bro me and Ryan are gonna pay you a visit kinda like "Queer eye for the straight guy" except its "Big guys for the little Guy" haha Don't worry we'll bag some b!tches for sure!
JacobS
09-13-2006, 05:40 PM
o god....i dont know wheather to run and hide or crawl up into the fetile position lol
BigBalledOX
09-13-2006, 05:46 PM
o god....i dont know wheather to run and hide or crawl up into the fetile position lol
Just embrace it, its much easier that way. ;)
Seriously though kid, stick to your guns, don't panic about anything.
Moraki
09-13-2006, 11:40 PM
Let yourself fall into the fetal position and cuddle up with Ryan ... i hear he likes that.
BigBalledOX
09-13-2006, 11:41 PM
Let yourself fall into the fetal position and cuddle up with Ryan ... i hear he likes that.
More like you know from personal experience sweetie. ;)
ok this girl is obviously a tough cookie you gott break her down. email her mad interacial porn with just this message "YOU LIKEY THIS!" i promised myself i wouldnt let you guys in on my secrete moves but desperate times call for desperate measures... lol jp man
stick to it man you'll get her, and if not get her friend!
Comando489
09-14-2006, 06:36 PM
"stick to it man you'll get her, and if not get her friend!"
hahaha that is always the best move ever
Catwoman3700
09-14-2006, 09:05 PM
DO learn how to ride a motorcycle...its one of the best things I ever did. I'm actually at the shop right now on my bike mechanic's computer hehe....
DO give a girl ATM (eventually....way longer down the line)
DONT you dare cry over this girl. She has alot to learn and so do you. Instead of always thinking about her, go out with your friends and check out some other hotties. She'll always be in your head one way or another but it helps to set your sights on something else for a while.
Oh and one more thing...in the future, be yourself. You're a cool guy, you got a hobby, you're most likely not an asshole just yet so stay cool and you wont have to 'find' a great girl...she'll come to you. In the words of Billy Madison....
YA GOTTA SAVOR IT, MAN!!!!!